yknw, i slept better than ever.

'Divorcing' A Friend

Friends come in many categories - best friends, close friends, casual friends, and ex-friends.
Just like couples, friends can break up, too. But how do you dump a friend? In cases of major rifts and betrayal, Jan Yager, a sociology professor and friendship coach, advises being direct but kind once you decide to end the friendship. "Tell your friend what hurt you and why you need to put the relationship on hold," he suggests.
While it's cruel to abandon longtime friends without offering any reasons, it's easy to let some friendships fizzle. Don't return calls as quickly, avoid plans or make them so far ahead that there's still time to cancel if you decide you still don't want to get together. "Most people will start to get the hint," says Yager. Phasing-out friends who have you put down or let you down pays other dividends, she says. If you feel better about your friends, you're more likely to feel better about yourself.
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it isn't like i'm trying to put this in a way that shows it's not my fault - my fault probably lies in sending that text, but you see, i needed to get it straight to you. if you were me and i were you, well i know you'll like get fucking pissed upside down. so you can hardly blame me for doing that right.

i know a text is fuck insincere or however you want to put it, and i see that it's inappropriate to put this here but sorry, i have no other way to put this to you. maybe this is for real and i won't go back, you won't turn back. frankly, i don't really care a lot. obviously i have more to say and last night's exchange's probably just a smittance to the fucking whole thing but you know.

you know what i hate is that fucking guailan tone right. 1. check your attitude. think about it lah, you treat your 'buddy', or marcus, or idk if they're the same guy. anyhow. comparing them and us, your attitude better to who? actually im fuck tired of having to put up with this nonsense lah if you say im mixing around with people i don't know well, i can actually say that i no longer 'know you well' for very long already, and i actually very well think that im now closer to THEM than that of YOU. im sure a lot of people thinks the same way, you know.

since which time have i actually said, "eh. you now very close to ___ hor."? hahahahaha if i had done that i apologise. hah, i don't even have a fucking SAY in your stuff, so how come you can come like that to me.

right, shall not continue coz this is getting on my nerves you know, im not sorry if i lost you.


on a brighter note, clique outing to zoo tomorrow! can't wait. conference at 10, reminder to myself. :)
off to call weichong and gord. two very sissy guys. :) oh i need to bathe too.